To investigate the mechanical properties of graphene (G) and calcium silicate hydrate (C-S-H) composites in different directions, molecular dynamics (MD) simulations and experiments were used, and the effects of temperature, loading rate, and graphene defects were also investigated. The experimental results show that the addition of graphene can improve the flexural, compressive, and tensile strength of the composite. The results of molecular dynamics simulation show that the addition of graphene in x and z directions can enhance the tensile strength of G/C-S-H in three directions, while the addition of graphene in y direction can reduce the tensile strength of G/C-S-H. At the same time, the tensile strength of G/C-S-H decreases with the increase in temperature and increases with the increase in loading rate. Meanwhile, the mechanical properties of G/C-S-H can be improved using a certain concentration of monatomic vacancy defects, diatomic vacancy defects, and S-W defects.