Multimodal object detection leverages the complementary characteristics of visible (RGB) and infrared (IR) imagery, making it well-suited for challenging scenarios such as low illumination, occlusion, and complex backgrounds. However, most existing fusion-based methods rely on static or heuristic strategies, limiting their adaptability to dynamic environments. To address this limitation, we propose CLSANet, a cognitive learning-based self-adaptive network that enhances detection performance by dynamically selecting and integrating modality-specific features. CLSANet consists of three key modules: (1) a Dominant Modality Identification Module that selects the most informative modality based on global scene analysis; (2) a Modality Enhancement Module that disentangles and strengthens shared and modality-specific representations; and (3) a Self-Adaptive Fusion Module that adjusts fusion weights spatially according to local scene complexity. Compared to existing methods, CLSANet achieves state-of-the-art detection performance with significantly fewer parameters and lower computational cost. Ablation studies further demonstrate the individual effectiveness of each module under different environmental conditions, particularly in low-light and occluded scenes. CLSANet offers a compact, interpretable, and practical solution for multimodal object detection in resource-constrained settings.