Ship classification in optical remote sensing requires balancing discriminative representation and model efficiency. Standard convolutional neural network (CNN) bottlenecks rely on local spatial kernels and may emphasize high-frequency texture cues, while stronger backbones increase parameter cost. We propose a frequency-aware lightweight bottleneck (FALB) that couples enhanced wavelet convolution (WTsConv) and contextual anchor attention (CAA) in a cascaded design. WTsConv adopts Sym4 wavelets and a learnable symmetric fusion weight between spatial and wavelet-reconstructed features to improve frequency-aware feature mixing. CAA is then applied to the refined features for contextual aggregation. Integrated into ResNet-50 bottlenecks, FALB is evaluated on FGSCM-52 and achieves 97.88% top-1 accuracy with 17.78 M parameters, compared with 96.92% and 25.56 M for the ResNet-50 baseline, surpassing ResNet-50 by 0.96% and outperforming compared general-purpose baselines while reducing parameters by 30.4%. Under this experimental setting, FALB improves the observed accuracy–parameter trade-off for remote sensing ship classification.