In recent years, deep learning has driven remarkable progress in remote sensing change detection (CD); however, practical deployment is still hindered by two limitations. First, CD results are easily degraded by imaging-induced uncertainties—mixed pixels and blurred boundaries, radiometric inconsistencies (e.g., shadows and seasonal illumination changes), and slight residual misregistration—leading to pseudo-changes and fragmented boundaries. Second, prevailing methods follow a static one-pass inference paradigm and lack an explicit feedback mechanism for adaptive error correction, which weakens generalization in complex or unseen scenes. To address these issues, we propose a feedback-driven CD framework that integrates a dual-branch U-Net with deep reinforcement learning (RL) for pixel-level probabilistic iterative refinement of an initial change probability map. The backbone produces a preliminary posterior estimate of change likelihood from multi-scale bi-temporal features, while a PPO-based RL agent formulates refinement as a Markov decision process. The agent leverages a state representation that fuses multi-scale features, prediction confidence/uncertainty, and spatial consistency cues (e.g., neighborhood coherence and edge responses) to apply multi-step corrective actions. From an imaging and interpretation perspective, the RL module can be viewed as a learnable, self-adaptive imaging optimization mechanism: for high-risk regions affected by blurred boundaries, radiometric inconsistencies, and local misalignment, the agent performs feedback-driven multi-step corrections to improve boundary fidelity and spatial coherence while suppressing pseudo-changes caused by shadows and illumination variations. Experiments on four datasets (CDD, SYSU-CD, PVCD, and BRIGHT) verify consistent improvements. Using SiamU-Net as an example, the proposed RL refinement increases mIoU by 3.07, 2.54, 6.13, and 3.1 points on CDD, SYSU-CD, PVCD, and BRIGHT, respectively, with similarly consistent gains observed when the same RL module is integrated into other representative CD backbones.