Vehicular infrared object detection is a key technology supporting autonomous driving systems to achieve all-weather environmental perception. However, infrared images inherently lack texture, resulting in blurred object contours. Additionally, deep network propagation severely erodes and loses feature information of distant tiny objects. To address the above issues, this study proposes a Full-Scale Feature Synergistic Perception Architecture for vehicular infrared object detection. This architecture first designs a Gradient-Informed Attention module, which initializes convolution kernels through physical gradient operators to inject geometric prior information into the network, enhancing the model’s perception capability of blurred object boundaries. Secondly, it constructs a Full-Scale Feature Pyramid containing a $P_2$ high-resolution feature layer to effectively recover the geometric detail features of distant tiny objects. Finally, it proposes a Scale-Aware Shared Head, which relies on a cross-scale parameter sharing mechanism to achieve extreme parameter compression, and simultaneously introduces deep semantic information to form strong constraints, suppressing noise interference in shallow features. Experimental results on the FLIR v2 and M3FD datasets show that the proposed architecture exhibits excellent detection performance. On FLIR v2, it raises mAP@50 to 64.06% (6.51% relative gain vs. YOLOv11) while maintaining 547 FPS inference speed, achieving an optimal accuracy–efficiency balance.