Traditional construction safety management, reliant on manual inspections and heuristic judgments, increasingly fails to address the dynamic, multi-dimensional risks of modern projects, perpetuating fragmented safety governance and reactive hazard mitigation. This study proposes an integrated building information modeling (BIM)–AI platform to unify safety supervision across the project lifecycle, synthesizing spatial-temporal data from BIM with AI-driven probabilistic models and IoT-enabled real-time monitoring for sustainable construction safety management. Employing a Design Science Research methodology, the platform’s phase-agnostic architecture bridges technical–organizational divides, while the Multilayer Neural Risk Coupling Assessment framework quantifies interdependencies among structural, environmental, and human risk factors. Prototype testing in real-world projects demonstrates improved risk detection accuracy, reduced reliance on manual processes, and enhanced cross-departmental collaboration. The system transitions safety regimes from compliance-based protocols to proactive, data-empowered governance. This approach offers scalability across diverse projects. The BIM-AI intelligent fusion platform proposed in this study builds an intelligent construction paradigm with synergistic development of safety governance and sustainability through whole lifecycle risk coupling analysis and real-time dynamic monitoring, which realizes a proactive safety supervision system while significantly reducing construction waste and accident prevention mechanisms.