In coastal regions with thick, soft soil deposits, bridge pile foundations are susceptible to lateral displacements induced by the construction of adjacent seawalls. This study employs a three-dimensional nonlinear finite element framework to investigate the lateral deformation mechanisms of rock-socketed bridge piles under seawall surcharge loading in soft soils, considering the effects of both immediate construction and long-term consolidation. A parametric analysis is performed to evaluate the effectiveness of deep cement mixing (DCM) piles in mitigating pile displacements, focusing on key design parameters, including DCM pile length, area replacement ratio, and elastic modulus. The results reveal that horizontal pile displacements peak at the pile head post-construction (25 days: 25 mm) and progressively decrease during consolidation, shifting the critical displacement zone to mid-pile depths (20 years: 12 mm). Bending moment analysis identifies persistent positive moments at the rock-socketed interface. Increasing pile stiffness marginally reduces displacements (a < 1 mm reduction for a 22% diameter increase), while expanding the seawall–pile distance to 110 m decreases displacements by 72–84%. DCM pile implementation significantly mitigates short-term (48% reduction) and long-term (54% reduction) displacements, with optimal thresholds at a 30% area replacement ratio and a 40.5 MPa elastic modulus. This study provides critical insights into time-dependent soil–pile interaction mechanisms and practical guidelines for optimizing coastal infrastructure design to minimize surcharge-induced impacts on adjacent pile foundations.