Amid accelerating global nitrogen deposition, China has emerged as the world’s third-largest hotspot after Western Europe and North America. Disentangling how elevated N inputs interact with intensifying precipitation and silvicultural practices is therefore essential for forecasting forest responses to ongoing climate change. Taking advantage of the “canopy-simulated nitrogen deposition” platform in Jigongshan National Nature Reserve, we compared tree-level census data from 2012 and 2022 to quantify decadal shifts in neighborhood competition under seven nitrogen addition and rainfall enhancement regimes. After using ordered-sample clustering to identify eight competitors as the optimal neighborhood size, we applied the Hegyi family of competitive indices (CI, CI1, CI2, mCI, mCI1 and mCI2) to analyze competitive responses at three hierarchical levels: the entire stand, all surviving trees and three dominant species (Quercus acutissima, Quercus variabilis, and Liquidambar formosana). The results indicate: (1) Nitrogen addition and rainfall enhancement did not alter the dominant tree species of the stand, which remained primarily Q. acutissima, Q. variabilis, and L. formosana. (2) The competition indices based on all trees showed an upward trend, whereas those calculated for surviving trees and for dominant species declined markedly (surviving trees p < 0.1, L. formosana CI1 p < 0.05). (3) Although nitrogen addition treatments did not alter overall stand competition intensity, it relieved competitive pressure on surviving trees by suppressing interspecific interactions (CI2 and mCI2); intraspecific competition also weakened, but at a slower rate. (4) Interspecific competition intensity for surviving L. formosana decreased significantly, whereas competition indices for Q. acutissima and Q. variabilis remained statistically unchanged. (5) Nitrogen addition methods (canopy vs. understory) had no significant effect on competition indices, while nitrogen addition intensity exhibited a dose-dependent effect: high nitrogen addition significantly reduced interspecific competition intensity more than low nitrogen addition (p < 0.05). In summary, nitrogen deposition primarily regulates interspecific competition through concentration rather than pathway, providing scientific basis for adaptive management of broad-leaved mixed forests in transitional zones under sustained nitrogen deposition scenarios.